The Signals That Actually Matter

by Don R. Campbell

Contributing Columnist

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How to find the signal in your own life when the noise of the world is loudest

Another year older brings reflection. 63?! How did that happen?

This past year was quite the year of milestones, both good and bad. The theme started as “Capture the Moments, Be More Present.” Well, as they say, be careful what you wish for — this year definitely forced a lot of presence. From an unexpected heart surgery, to great friends suddenly dying, to amazing positives and thankfully lots of normal moments in between. Each of these mattered and each was lived fully. My 62nd year had it all.

Now here we sit, surrounded by good friends on a boat, reflecting on life, discussing the future (yes, even on vacation the discussion of Signals is in full swing), enjoying the current moments and laughing heartily.

Ironically, this is all occurring at a ‘destination’ — a small Croatian village called Gradac. The travel plan to get here involved flights that were rerouted, an airline that no longer exists, and a 31-minute international connection that no human being could have completed. It involved the impact of a Strait of Hormuz closure, a global jet fuel shortage, and a computer-generated itinerary that would have sent us through three countries in 33 minutes. It involved, in other words, exactly the kind of disruption that has been forecast and documented in forensic detail in previous articles in this series.

And yet here we are. The Adriatic. Birthday dinner with good people and a view that required every one of those disruptions to reach.

When reflecting on all of this, the thinking turns — not about supply chains, for once — but about the signals that actually brought us here. Not the market signals. Not the geopolitical ones. The personal ones. The ones about what actually matters.

“Beware of Destination Addiction — a preoccupation with the idea that happiness is in the next place, the next job, and with the next partner. Until you give up the idea that happiness is somewhere else, it will never be where you are.”

— Dr. Robert Holden

Spend enough time watching how people make decisions — in business, in investing, in their personal lives — and Destination Addiction is everywhere. It shows up as a quiet background commentary: the next promotion will make it meaningful. The next relationship will make it complete. The next financial milestone will make it enough. The next destination will make everything happier, healthier, wealthier. Destination Addiction is real and it is often destructive.

The noise machine accelerates this addiction. Every headline, every market update, every social media feed is designed to convince you that the thing that matters is the next thing — the next crisis, the next opportunity, the next threat. Scroll far enough and you will find something alarming about every present moment. The algorithm is not designed to make you satisfied with where you are. It is designed to make you feel that where you are is insufficient.

This is the noise. And most of us have confused it for the signal.

THE SIGNALS IN A LIFE WELL LIVED

The signal, in a life, looks different from the signal in a supply chain — but the discipline for finding it is the same.

In analytical economic work, the signal is the piece of information that actually predicts what happens next, separated from the volume of data designed to distract, alarm, or mislead. Finding it requires a willingness to ignore the loudest voices in favour of the quietest data points. It requires patience, specificity, and the courage to act on what you find before the mainstream confirms it.

In a life, the signal is the thing you keep returning to when the noise finally stops. It is the conversation you remember months later. The morning coffee and view you did not want to end. The work that felt like less effort than anything else you have ever done. The place — or being with the person — where time moved differently.

Most people collect enormous amounts of noise and notice almost no signals about their own lives. They have strong opinions about market conditions, strong opinions on how others should live their lives, and almost no idea what they actually want. Most of us have met them — they are quick to tell you what they do not like or what is wrong, but find it genuinely difficult to articulate what they do like, or what they believe is right.

Will you be making it happen, or having it happen to you?

“If you haven’t the strength to impose your own terms upon life, then you must accept the terms it offers you.”

— T.S. Eliot

The terms life offers in the absence of deliberate choice are not random. They are the defaults — choices that happen rather than choices that are made. The career that was available rather than chosen. The city that was convenient rather than intentional. A year, a career, a life that happened rather than the one that was designed. The defaults are not bad. They are simply someone else’s signal mistaken for your own.

The birthday questions worth asking on a Croatian island at the end of a week of hiking trails and Adriatic sunsets are not about age.

They are about self-awareness.

Is the life you are living running on your signal or on someone else’s noise?

Are you present in your decisions?

Does it seem as if outside forces are controlling your time?

Is now the time to put new ‘quiet rules’ back into your life?

This series exists to help quietly identify the real signal in the information flowing past us every day. The pharmaceutical supply chains. The jet fuel shortages. The fertilizer markets. The two clocks the market is not pricing correctly.

But that discipline applies closer to home too. The signals that actually matter in a life are rarely the ones making the most noise. They are quieter, more specific, and considerably more difficult to uncover — but they are there, personal to each of us, waiting to be read by anyone willing to stop scrolling long enough to look inwards and outwards.

The Adriatic at sunrise is one of them.

So is the conversation you had that went until late at night weeks ago, that you still cannot forget.

So is the moment you realize you are exactly where you want to be, need to be and are meant to be.

The series continues next week with its analytical work. But this week, the signal worth tracking is a personal one.

Please take a few moments, or a few hours, to consider the questions above. No need to share the answers, but it would be helpful if more people were able to identify what they want, rather than just what they don’t want.

Be Diligent. Be Strategic. Be Present.

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